Lesson of the Day: What’s Your Drive?

This month, I have decided to deactivate my social media accounts for 30 days. My intention for this action is to refocus my time and energy towards other goals/activities I have pushed to the side. So last night, instead of scrolling through Instagram and Facebook, I read a chapter from a book I have been…

Lesson of the Day: I Need Closure…

Where did we go wrong? You meant “I” right? It is inevitable that after a break up your mind starts racing with questions that at the moment need answers. But that is not the case.What needs to happen is for you to self-reflect and take responsibility for your actions alone. When your partner brought up…

Idiosyncrasies That Drive You Crazy!

It’s just the little things you do… It’s a beautiful Saturday and you and your “boo thang” are driving down the highway with no worries in the world. As you look over at her, you admire her natural beauty. She has her eyes closed and her hand out the window catching the breeze. Then all…

Let Me Cater To You…

It’s that time of year again when Cupid has his bow and arrow ready to go. For all the ladies that are expecting their man to do something special for them this Valentine’s Day, I challenge you to turn the tables around and cater to him this year. Here are a few ideas of how…

Lesson of the Day: Never Get Too Comfortable

Last week, I had my end of year review with my supervisor. She stated that ultimately I was a great asset to the team, but what I had become was what she dreaded that most employees do. Comfortable. Intrigued to hear her elaboration of this matter, she stated that when I first came on I…

Lesson of the Day: Is Love Enough?

Yesterday morning, my mother sent me a link to an Instagram post that read: “Are you looking for Love or a List? What if God brings you love but love looks different than everything on the list of what you’re looking for? Will you accept it or reject it?” In all honesty, my immediate thought…

Are you in a Placeholder Relationship?

You are sitting next to the person you are dating in silence. While most people would be content in just the presence of each other, this bothers you. “What is on their mind?” Their silence is a constant reminder of the emptiness that is apparent within the relationship. Because even with the vast amount of…

Top 25 Things That Make A Woman Unattractive

Men by nature are visual beings. Therefore, the saying, “First impressions are everything” go hand-in-hand when you first meet a guy. But to keep his attention takes other qualities and traits. Here is a list of things that can make you unattractive to a man and ultimately turn him off.

Lesson Of The Day: Love and Compromise by Eartha Kitt

From the 1982 documentary, “All By Myself: The Eartha Kitt Story.” Q: Are you willing to compromise within a relationship? A: To compromise? What is compromising? Compromising for what? Compromising for what reason? To compromise? For what? To compromise. What is compromise? Q: If a man came into your life, wouldn’t you want to compromise?…